How soon should we book you as our officiate?

As an wedding officiate, this is only a portion of the wedding day to ensure your day is to be a legal marriage in Ontario, Canada.
Once you have secured your wedding venue, cater, photographer and florist, you should then consider booking a wedding officiate.


What do you want your clients to know?

As a metaphysical minister I am able to officiate various ceremonies on your wedding day.
I am also an Indigenous Grandmother, traditional teacher, spiritual medium and spiritual coach.

My understanding of Creation is that all is connected, and that all of Creation is filled with spirit, and we are one family living on different parts of earth mother, and that our loved ones of past are watching us each day, and so are those new faces (spirits) yet to come to be born.
I have had 2 near death experiences in my life, and such of these NDE allowed the confirmation of the world of spirit.

I have been married 31 years, raised 5 grown children, and I am an Aunt and Great Aunt and a Grandmother art 55 years of life.
This I am grateful for and truly blessed. ✨

Your wedding ceremony can be as religious as you wish, spiritual, traditional and light.

I will work with you in creating the perfect ceremony. I have 3 weddings I have completed as an ordained minister, and 2 prior to ordination that were (Indigenous Traditional not registered in Ontario).

In 2022 I have 12 weddings currently scheduled as of March 1st, and of these 12 weddings, 3 of these are Indigenous Traditional Weddings.

I look forward and welcome a complimentary discussion about my services as an Wedding Officiate.

Email contact for a free complimentary session.

Hand Fasting Ceremony & a Love Ceremony

Hand Fasting Ceremony is a promising, a love ceremony, a commitment ceremony that is old in time.
This ceremony can include: vows, exchange of rings.
The promising to each other, in fasting of the hands, is not a legal registered marriage, this is a ceremonial religious commitment.

The couple promise their commitment to each other, and in the company of family and friends,
The couple will not be announced as a married couple, and the ceremony is not registered. The announcement will be the newly promised couple.
For a registered ceremony please follow this link to learn more on process to applying for a marriage license.

Getting married | ontario.ca visit the website for steps to apply for a marriage license.

Planning of a Hand Fasting Ceremony
  1. one complimentary meeting to discuss your ideas and thoughts about your promising ceremony
  2. the opportunity to choose from some simple vows, ideas of your own, your words, you wish to share with your loved one
  3. simple vows 10-15 minute ceremony
$275.00 plus GST and HST
Mileage fee:
Flat rate of $60.00 will be applied to kilometers over 50 kms one way from 4 Winds All My Relations
50% deposit to be due on the date of confirmation of your wedding date and the remaining 50% is due 4 weeks prior to your confirmed date.

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Renewal of Vows

Looking to renewal your wedding vows, this ceremony of reaffirming your vows is a wonderful gift to reconnect and share your love for each other and if you wish with others.

Looking to have loved ones and family in celebration of your vow renewal day.
Marriages during the time of Covid, you may have decided on a Civil Marriage or a Marriage in that the circle of family and friends was limited to number in attendance and location.

Maybe you feel that you would like to renewal your vows in a circle of family and friends in your favorite location, day, month, celebration of this sacred ceremony, then this package is for you!

Wedding vows are renewed for many reasons: Why renew your vows?
  1. to refresh your commitments
  2. to have present loved ones and family
  3. to have a celebration of love, good food, good company and acknowledging your commitment that you made during 2020 and 2021
  4. after a time of transitions in a marriage
  5. at 25 years, 30 years, 50 years and even 60 years of marriage to celebrate
  6. to share with family, friends, your children, your grand children, your great grandchildren your love for each other
  7. to reaffirm your commitment to each other after a rough period in your relationship,
  8. there is NO WRONG reason to renew your vows.
  9. to celebrate your marriage in your home, at a destination you wish to be at.
  10. maybe you had a simple and quiet wedding, or a civil marriage and you now wish to share your time with others in celebration
  11. maybe financially this is a better time to bring together family and friends and renew your vows.
Renewal of Wedding Vows:
I will send you a package after our initial free consultation if you so choose to work with me as your Wedding Officiate.
  1. one complimentary meeting to discuss your ideas and thoughts about your vow renewal
  2. the opportunity to choose from some simple vows, ideas of your own, your words, you wish to share with your loved one
  3. vow renewal 20 minutes
50% deposit to be due on the date of confirmation of your wedding date and the remaining 50% is due 4 weeks prior to your confirmed date.

$300.00 plus GST and HST

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Mileage fee:
Flat rate of $60.00 applied per kilometer for over 50 kms one way from 4 Winds All My Relations




Black and Gold Wedding Package

~Joining Together and Weaving Two Hearts As One~
Personalize Marriage Ceremony


The Black and Gold Ceremony is a package that brings in many aspects of planning this day of celebration.

· You will receive one initial COMPLIMENTARY face-to-face meeting with Reverend Cindilee prior to committing
  • Ceremony length is approximately 20 minutes
  • During this meeting she will listen to your vision for your ceremony and offer various suggestions and ideas to help reduce the stress.
  • Rehearsal 60 minutes
·If you decide to work with Reverend Cindilee she is available by email, text or phone to answer any questions and to help you create your unique wedding ceremony. Making the process easy and worry free; so you can focus on the details and your enjoyment of your special day.

Rehearsal is included in the fee and to file your marriage documents with the Office Of The Register General
  1. Following your ceremony, I will personally file the legal documents with the Office of the Registrar General.
  2. Proper license is required for this ceremony to be obtained by the couple prior to the wedding day.
You will be sent a package, that you will be able to choose from many readings, ceremony ideas, vows, to have a memorable and ceremony unique to you.
50% deposit to be due on the date of confirmation of your wedding date and the remaining 50% is due 4 weeks prior to your confirmed date.
$425.00 plus HST and GST

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Mileage fee:
Applies to kilometer for over 50 kms one way from 4 Winds All My Relations $60.00 flat

The Elopement Ceremony Heart Ceremony

Are you looking for a officiate who will conduct a ceremony, that is private and personal with a simple exchanging of vows with your partner?

This package is a simple wedding, if you are not wishing to customize your wedding, or your ceremony.

What is needed: you to obtain your marriage license
Who is needed: two witnesses are required and the officiating minister and you

Where: at your home, outside in nature, in a park, many locations
How: to contact myself and to know;

  1. This ceremony is only 15 minutes in length
  2. You will receive one initial COMPLIMENTARY face-to-face meeting with Reverend Cindilee prior to committing
  3. Following your ceremony, I will personally file the legal documents with the Office of the Registrar General.
  4. Proper license is required for this ceremony to be obtained by the couple prior to the wedding day.
There is no rehearsal fee included due to the nature of this marriage package, this is much like an elopement, quick, simple and discreet.
Personalize Marriage Ceremony
50% deposit to be due on the date of confirmation of your wedding date and the remaining 50% is due 4 weeks prior to your confirmed date.
$300.00 plus GST and HST

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Mileage fee:
Flat rate of $60.00 applied to kilometer for over 50 kms one way from 4 Winds All My Relations
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What are you wedding ceremony fees?

My fees are from $275.00 to $425.00, this does not include a rehearsal. Rehearsal fee is $100.00.
Subject to GST and HST
Mileage a flat rate of $60.00 will be applied to kilometers over 50kms one way from 4 Winds All My Relations

What is the length of the wedding ceremony?

The average length of time is 20 minutes, however, a wedding ceremony can be as short as 15 minutes and as long as 30 minutes and the beyond 30 minutes.

Each wedding ceremony is unique, so the times will vary.

Will you assist us in the wedding ceremony plans?

Yes, absolutely!

The planning of your wedding vows, exchange of rings, introduction, special readings, and announcing the new couple, I am able to provide many suggestions based on experience, intuitively knowing and understanding your wishes, to create a one of a kind memorable day.

Are we able to write our own vows?

Absolutely you are able to write your own vows, and you can read them to each other.

What do you wear as the officiate for the wedding cermony?

I wear a white stole, that has a embroidered pink lotus flower OR the 2nd white stole that has and embroidered blue triangle.

I dress with colors that blend to the colors of the wedding party, and am open to discuss my professional business attire with you during planning.

Can we take photographs of you during the ceremony?

Yes, you may take photographs.

How much time do we need to apply for the marriage license?

You would apply for your marriage license NO SOONER then 3 month PRIOR to your wedding date.
The license is only good for 90 days prior to expiry.

There is a number of required documents you will need to take with you when you apply for your license.
Application is done at your city/town clerks office.

What is needed to be legally married in Ontario?

In Ontario you can only (3) three groups that can legally solemnize your wedding ceremony.
These are:
  1. Religious Official (Ordained and Active Minister Listed on the Service Ontario Officiates)
  2. Justice of the Peace
  3. Ontario Municipal Clerk 
Getting married | ontario.ca FACT SHEET

In Ontario there is (2) two types of Marriage Ceremonies performed:
"Religious marriage: a recognized religious official marries you. Check the religious marriage Officiants list to ensure that the officiant you are interested in hiring is authorized to perform a marriage in Ontario. religious marriage Officiants
Civil marriage: a judge, justice of the peace or authorized municipal clerk marries you, often at a local municipal office or city hall. Find a local city hall, town hall or municipal office"



Without the officiate you will HAVE NO WEDDING.
Confirm that your officiate is a licensed active ordained minister to marry in the province .
Here is the link to the list of Ontario Officiates ( I am listed Wainfleet ✨)
WInnipegParsonsPreston David SunabackaThe Anglican Church of Canada Diocese of Huron
WahagoMauricePatricia JIndependent Assemblies Of God International
WainfleetEcker-FlaggCindi LeeCanadian International Metaphysical Ministry
WainfleetGilmoreMichaelBe In Christ Church Of Canada
WainfleetHooverHoward WilliamBe In Christ Church Of Canada
WainfleetKeeferBarton DaleReformed Church In America
WainfleetKievitReneeBe In Christ Church Of Canada
WainfleetKsciukStanleyRoman Catholic Diocese Of St. Catharines

The Marriage certificate is the record of a marriage, it has the date, place of the marriage and the names of the people that were married.
The record of solemnization of marriage is not the same as the marriage certificate, to receive the marriage certificate, the marriage is registered by the official that performed the marriage, this is done when the completed and signed marriage license is sent to Service Ontario.

It may take up to 6-8 weeks before you can order a marriage certificate.

I am ordained with the Canadian International Metaphysical Ministry and the International Metaphysical Ministry (USA).

As a metaphysical minister I encourage couples to create a ceremony that is a reflection of their commitment, love, faith, culture and religion, in that I am able to offer officiating.


Information Marriage License

The License for Marriage is an application that needs to be completed by the individuals that are wishing to purchase a Marriage License to be married in the province of Ontario.

You will need to bring with you:
  • your identification (birth certificate, current passport, records of immigrant landing or Canadian citizenship card
  • if you have changed your name you will need to bring this along as well the document
  • photo identification documents for both the bride and the groom
  • The Marriage License is obtained by you to contact your City/Muncipality Clerk Office in the location of the marriage or that which is closer.
  • You WOULD not obtain a marriage certificate application for another province that you are not being married in, the province of marriage and that of the location closest to the wedding is where the application is to be applied at.

Online Marriage License Certificate

Provided below is various links that will be able to share more about the Marriage License application:

To get married in Ontario
Certificate Fees for Marriage License
Who can perform marriages in Ontario
Name Change Information Spousal
Getting Remarried in Ontario after a divorce
Online status inquiry for a Marriage Certificate Application in Ontario
To assist you may wish to visit the Ontario government Service Ontario webiste to learn more information

Paper Work After the Wedding Ceremony

  •  The record of solemnization, this will be given back to you, and the signed marriage license will be sent to the Registrar General Office Thunder Bay by the brown envelop you received when you registered your marriage at the town/city clerks office.
  • When you marriage license is sent to the Registrar General Office you will not receive notice from the government or any documents that confirm the marriage license receipt.
  • The Certificate of Marriage, you MUST order this, IT WILL not be mailed you unless you request this information. 
  • The Provincial Government website will have all the information for you to apply for your name change, and certificate of marriage.
  • The wedding officiate DOES NOT HAVE THE RESPONSIBILITY to purchase your wedding license OR to order your marriage certificate.


Name Change for the Bride

The city hall where you purchase your Marriage Lisence will be able to answer specific questions.

The Registrar General of Ontario can answer questions.

As an Licensed Officiate we are responsible to mail the completed Marriage License to the Office of the Registrar General in Thunder Bay within 48 hours of your wedding.

The Record of Solemnization is removed from the Wedding Registration and given to the couple on the day after all signatures have been completed and the wedding ceremony is completed.

It is important to apply for the official Marriage Certificate within 12 weeks following your wedding.
YOU need to apply for the Marriage Certificate to receive one. This can be done online and payment done through online payment to the Office of the Registrar General of Ontario.


Mileage Fee

Mileage fee may apply in addition to officiating services at a flat rate of $60.00 at 50kms one way from 4 Winds All My Relations.

Will be additionally added to the invoice.

Retainer To Hold Your Wedding Date & Cancellation of Date

You as the wedding couple agree:

  • A 50% retainer of the full service fee is required after agreed upon officiating date to hold the date within 48 hours of acceptance.

  • The remaining 50% retainer of the service fee remaining to be paid in full 14 days prior to wedding date.

  • Cancellation of wedding date without a rescheduling date Retainer of $75.00 will not be reimbursed as is equivalent to the Officiating Minister time, and services.

  • Cancellation of wedding date with a rescheduling date, (1x) change of date officiating services will be moved to the date, if available by the minister. IF NOT AVAILABLE date for officiating minister, $75.00 retainer will NOT be reimbursed as equivalent to the Officiating Minister time and services.

  • The scheduled Officiate will arrive to the location 45 minutes prior to the wedding time, only excluding emergency circumstances, and in such will provide a back up Officiating Minister to complete the service on said date, time and ceremony.